Pilgrims

We all know the “feel good”” side of Thanksgiving – turkey, yams, pumpkin pie, football, turkey again, one of the Uncles with a Pilgrim hat on.  We hear about Squanto and how he educated the Pilgrims on planting properly.  We hear about the “Big Kumbaya” when the Indians and Pilgrims sat down and ate turkey from Strack’s while watching the Lions battle the Cowboys on CBS sports…  Here’s something that perhaps you did not know:  The Pilgrims made seven times more graves than huts. They came here sick and hungry after sailing form 66 days on a ship nothing like Carnival Cruise Lines. The Mayflower carried 102 pilgrims to the New World in search of freedom over chiily waters searching for a land that would provide them with food and a government that would ensure their freedoms.  They reached our shores on November 11, 1620.  47% of them died before Christmas Day.  The harsh conditions of the 66 day journey took its toll on their bodies.  Lack of adequate drinking water, lack of sanitation, spoiled food supplies, and different types of disease lead to death for almost half of the travelers within the first few weeks of arrival.  They had no crops to harvest and had little skill in the wild.  An argument could be made that they were the most impoverished Americans in history, yet they set aside a day of thanksgiving.  That is the real meaning of the holiday.  It took an act of congress and President Lincoln making a proclamation in 1863 that the last Thursday in November would be a national day of thanksgiving on an annual basis. 

We get to teach.  We get to be a Principal.  We get to work with kids.  We get to do those things; we don’t ”have to” do those things.  Sometimes those 900+ kids can get under your skin.  Give thanks.  Sometimes they try your patience.  Give thanks.  Sometimes you may wonder of you are ever going to get through.  Give thanks.  Sometimes they may just frustrate you.  Give thanks.  The reason we get to do (not have to do) what we do is because of the kids.  Take them out of the equation and we are all in another line of work.  We get the privilege of the chance to make a difference in the lives of kids at least 180 days per year.  Privilege?  Yep, that’s what I wrote.  There are thousands of others who are waiting their chance to get to do what we do.  Don’t take it lightly.  Give thanks for the opportunities before you.   

Marshmallows

I hate marshmallows.  I was the kid at the campfires wondering if there was another choice.  In the 60’s, a whole bunch of kids at Mildred Merkley Elementary School brought this stuff called Marshmallow Fluff in place of the “J” in their “PBJ’s.”  Disgusting.  I would rather eat a bowling ball.  Why bring up marshmallows?  I just read the findings of a study conducted with four-year olds.  The kids were left in a room with a single marshmallow and the instructions that if they waited until the experimenter returned, they could have two marshmallows instead of one.  Are you kidding me?  Most of the kids ate the marshmallow!  A very, very small percentage waited until the researcher returned to claim their increased reward.  Shocker?  Not really…after all, it is a “microwave society”…but I digress. The outcomes of this study are significant because the kids were followed into adulthood.  The kids who ate the marshmallow right away were less likely to find success in their careers, their finances, and in personal relationships. The reverse was true for those who delayed their gratification for a larger reward.

Teachers must learn not to eat the first marshmallow.  Do not abdicate your role as the classroom leader by allowing personalities that feed on instant gratification to interfere with instructional practices.  As I have been teaching in Lunch & Learns”, students will rise to the level what level of questions that anticipate their teacher asking.  Challenge your students and create a rigorous education – one that assures future gratification in student growth.  It is easy to back down when you are seemingly out of energy, when it is easier to just give in, when that marshmallow looks really good and what does it matter anyway if we have some “free time”.  To promote self-control skills for your students requires that we do the same through our choices as the leaders of our classrooms.  Be purposeful.  Be intentional.  Be driven by what lies ahead.  Be driven by working toward some huge goals.  Don’t choose the first marshmallow now when you can many more later.

Veterans

Today, we honor military Veterans around our country.  There will be parades, dedications, flags will be flying, and tears will be shed.  At our school, we have several Veterans joining us in our Main Gym during 8^th period.  There will be Moms and Dads, Grandmas and Grandpas, brothers and sisters, aunts and uncles and some Veterans who live in the area.  President Reagan said years ago that “Some wonder their entire life if they have made a difference…Marines don’t have that problem.”  They, along with millions of servicemen and servicewomen throughout our nation’s history have provided the very freedoms we enjoy through their courage, dedication, sacrifice, and a selfless call to duty. 

Americans have chosen to serve for many reasons.  In the Revolutionary War, it was to create a nation.  In World War II, it was to save humanity from the destructive plots of a madman and to respond to “A day that will live in infamy.” We fought a Civil War to save our own country from division that would not allow us to stand as one country. Korea and Vietnam were largely fought to prevent the oppression of tyrannical governments and the spread of communism.  The patriotism of hundreds of thousands was stirred on that terrible September day in 2001.  Men and women filled the recruiting stations to pledge themselves to the cause.  Whatever the reasons, an unthinkable number of American men and women have lost a large part of their lives; with hundreds of thousands giving the ultimate sacrifice – their very life in defending us.  We live in the greatest country in the world.  We get to enjoy freedoms that many countries cannot even dream of.  Our Constitution has been defended admirably for well over 200 years by people like the Veterans who will visit us today.  We owe them so much.  Today is an opportunity to show them our appreciation.  The program begins at the start of 8^th period and will last approximately 30 minutes. There will be real heroes among us today.

Getting Through the Lions

Lions hunt near water. This is not because they need something to wash down a fine kill or because they just bought a great set of waders. They do this because they know that their prey have to eventually come to the water. The trick for the prey is to get past the lions to get a drink. They may do this by taking the long way around, by traveling in packs, or outsmarting the lions.    Sometimes they just have to go through the lion to get that drink.  That lion can wreak havoc on the plans of many animals. 

We have to get kids ready to go through the lion.  Sure, we can pass it off, find a way around the real issues, maybe wish that the lion wasn’t there…or, you can load up and go through the lion.  What does that mean to us?  Recently, the Workforce Development of Indiana identified the top skills that businesses are looking for in graduates they wish to hire.  Three of these are a direct result of what you do: Reading Comprehension, Critical Thinking, and Writing. All of these can be looked at as a ‘Lion” to get through.  Amazingly, that is the same stuff that I have been preaching about since we opened our doors.  When kids get here, we can see who took a route of avoidance, who runs with the pack, and those who compensate to mask skill gaps.  It doesn’t matter.  We have to meet them where they are and make them better – make them grow.  We have to get them to the water when so many things may be getting in the way that is ready to devour them.  We did sign up for that.  There are a lot of kids with a lot of baggage that they are not ready to handle; nor should they have to at this age.  You may be the only adult that shows them kindness and patience and takes the time to make it all work.  They need to get to the water and we need to get them there -  whether that is around the lion or right through it.